We all know the saying any man can be a daddy but it take alot more to be a father. These words till this day remain true.
There is even one ass-shaker of a song with lyrics that are sung by many young ladies: "I ain't had no daddy around when I was growing up. Thats why I'm wild and don't give a fluff." And Chris Rock has even pointed out that your main responsiblity as a father is to keep your daughter off that pole. These all highlight the effects of having no father present for young ladies.
Chris Rock goes further to say, "Your relationship with your daughter will determine how she will form relationships with all other men in future."
Although all this is true- I am not the kind of person that leaves life to make my choices. Like so many I havent had a father for years and you don't see me on a stripper pole over weekends. No daddy sydrome exists for those that want to blame the universe for their actions, for the rest of us there is simply the fact that you have to live without a daddy whose leg you can sit on and will teach you to drive.
So if you are reading this and you don't have a daddy- what is your choice?
My choice is to leave the pole alone too Menay!!! lol. But all of this is true 100%. Our circumstances can break us, but only if we let it. Think our daddy's will be proud of us!!
ReplyDeleteAlthough the father/male role model is key in our development, ultimately our strength comes from within. We need the make the best and work with the cards that life had dealt us.
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